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Choosing a
Physician
Making the right choice of doctor to deliver your baby is one
of the most worrisome things for any newly pregnant woman. But
you can reduce that anxiety by dividing your questions into two
sets. One list will involve objective factors, the other will
cover issues that are not so easy to quantify.
You'll want to investigate some immediate practical matters,
such as whether a physician you are considering is part of your
insurance company's list. You'll want to find out whether the
doctor has a good relationship with the hospital you intend to
use and whether that hospital accepts the same insurance
coverage. As part of that research, you'll want to find out
whether billing, co-pay and other issues can be handled
simply.
You'll want a doctor that is likely to be available when and as
you need him or her. The best physician is of no use to you if
they can't see you on short notice. Most pregnancies go from
start to finish without a hitch, but when a doctor is needed,
he or she is generally needed right away. If that person isn't
available, they should have a backup you trust in emergency
situations.
You should ask any physician you're considering how long
they've been in practice, and what their C-section percentage
is. Most are between 15-20%. This gives you some idea of their
views on risk. You should ask also about their views on the use
of anesthesia and other factors surrounding pain control.
Talking to nurses they've worked with (those at the hospital,
not the ones employed by the doctor) is a good way to get some
opinions. Be sure to ask more than one. Even the best physician
won't necessarily be the favorite of every nurse.
You'll want to ensure that the physician you see regularly is
the one who will deliver your baby. Avoiding surprises is near
the top of any prospective mother's list and a doctor who knows
your history personally is essential. And, you'll want to
ensure that they will be present during the entire process.
Doctors who flit in and out during labor don't inspire
confidence during stressful times.
But there are other, less cut and dried topics that you'll want
to explore, too.
It's not necessary that the physician be Mister Rogers and a
friend to all womankind. But they should treat you with respect
and show genuine concern for your welfare. They should be
willing to answer questions without being patronizing. You
should feel at ease talking to them. That helps build
confidence in their medical judgment.
They should be honest with you, without being unfeeling. Given
a choice, most mothers would naturally want someone with
excellent medical skills. That's absolutely basic. But those
skills can be exercised in many ways. Finding a physician that
treats you as a complete person, not just a laboratory
experiment to be properly completed, will put you more at
ease.
Exploring a little bit about their general philosophy is not a
bad idea. They don't have to share your religion, your
political views or your beliefs in general. But knowing they
are someone you can 'work with' on a nearly year-long effort
with such a hugely important outcome will make things go much
smoother for all concerned.
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