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Painful
Intercourse: Typical Reasons Why It
Occurs
If you have experienced painful sexual intercourse, you are not
alone. Even though it is not often discussed, almost every
woman has experienced pain during sex at one time or another.
However, while painful intercourse may be a passing occurrence
for some women, for other women, pain during sex is something
that happens all of the time and that affects all of their
intimate relationships. No matter if you have had pain during
sex for the first time or if sexual pain is a major problem in
your life, it is important to address the reason why it is
happening, for the good of your sex life and your overall
health.
Painful sexual intercourse, which is also known as dyspareunia,
can happen for any number of reasons. The first question in
narrowing down the exact cause for the painful sex is whether
the pain is a new occurrence or something that has plagued you
for a long time. If you have had pain free sex in the past and
are experiencing pain during intercourse for the first time,
the reason may come down to a related health problem. Sexually
transmitted disease can cause you to have pain during sex,
especially diseases like Gonorrhea and Chlamydia that cause
inflammation.
Pelvic inflammatory disease can also cause painful intercourse,
as can viral infections and yeast infections. If you believe
you have any of these problems, it is best to hold off on
intercourse for a while until you have seen a doctor and
received treatment. Sexually transmitted diseases and yeast
infections can be transmitted to your partner easily, and then
your partner can re-infect you the next time you have sex,
starting a cycle of infection.
Growths within your reproductive system may also cause you to
have painful sexual intercourse. Polyps on your cervix, though
normally symptom-less, can cause pain during sex, as can polyps
on your uterus. Fibroid tumors within your uterus may also be
to blame for painful sexual intercourse. Sometimes, if you have
an ovarian problem, like a cyst, these can cause you to have
pain during sex – this kind of pain may increase in certain
sexual positions. If there is scar tissue in your vagina from
surgery or other injury, this tissue may become inflamed and
painful during sex.
If you have experienced painful intercourse for a long period
of time, then you may have a condition known as vaginismus. In
this condition, the pelvic floor muscles that surround your
vagina constrict during sex, making the vagina seem too “small”
for sex. In some cases, the muscles may make the vagina
completely impenetrable. Women who experience this condition
usually have a difficult time using a tampon or having a pelvic
exam as well. Vaginismus may occur for reasons a woman is
unable to pinpoint, however, often women who experience this
condition have been the victim of rape or sexual molestation.
This condition tends to have a self perpetuating nature –
painful intercourse leads to avoidance of intercourse or it
leads to increased tensing of the muscles the next time a woman
tries to have intercourse, which makes it more painful
again.
The good news about all of these conditions is that it is
possible to treat them all. No woman has to live with painful
intercourse or has to resign themselves to a life without sex
because it has been painful in the past. The key is to bring
the problem of painful sex to the attention of your doctor. It
can be a difficult subject for many people to broach, but it is
important that you do so. Rest assured your doctor has dealt
with the problem before and get the medical attention that you
need.
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