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How Post Partum Depression Can Affect your
Life
Having a baby is a wonderful but challenging experience.
Pregnancy, giving birth and having a newborn are all separate
major mind and body life changes. Hormones fluctuate and the
stress of the newborn’s sleep and feeding schedule can be
overwhelming. Exhaustion and depression can set in easily.
Post partum depression or “the baby blues” is something every
new mother should be aware of. The first step in guarding
against post partum depression is taking very good care of
yourself.
Women are nurturers who tend to put everyone else in front of
themselves. This is especially true when it comes to family.
Children in particular can be a draining source. Newborns and
toddlers are helpless and they need complete care. This can
definitely leave a new mom feeling neglected.
Half of the battle against fighting postpartum depression can
be won by accepting help. Some women are under the unrealistic
impression that they must provide complete care for their
newborn without any help. When your mother in law volunteers to
come over and care for the baby. let her help out. When your
husband says that he will get up and tend to the crying baby,
let him do that.
Post partum depression affects about 70-80% of women after they
give birth. With so many changes it is no surprise that some
women are depressed after birth. Be on the lookout for signs of
post partum depression. If you find yourself constantly in
tears, are finding it very hard to fall asleep or stay asleep
and are unsure of your mothering skills, you may be
experiencing post partum depression.
There are some conditions that can predispose you to post
partum depression. Women who have had post partum depression
once are more likely to experience it after other births. If
you have a psychiatric illness prior to becoming a mother your
risk of having another one is increased. To many changes prior
to giving birth, such as moving to a enw town or losing a loved
one can make your more likely to experience post partum
depression.
Post partum depression with recognition and proper treatment
usually cleared up without any effects. However, some new
mothers will begin to experience a more severe mental illness.
Women who have bi-polar disorder or schizophrenia may
experience episodes of these disorders following post partum
depression.
Post partum depression is likely the result of all of the major
life changes that happen simultaneously when a women gives
birth. Women come from a variety of different backgrounds and
have different biological make up. Some women will experience
post partum depression on a large scale while others will only
have mild episodes. There will be a portion of mothers who
complete skip the post partum depression phase.
In order to fend off post partum depression, you should make
sure that you and your loved ones are aware of the symptoms. If
you do not see a clearing in post partum depression after a few
weeks or if it seems to be getting worse, get help.
Most of the time women in the midst of post partum depression
do not realize they are experiencing an episode. Husbands,
mothers, sisters and brothers and any one who is close to the
new mother need to be aware of what post partum depression
is.
Watch for an inability to care for the baby, a loss of
appetite, suicidal thoughts or comments and a loss of pleasure
in things she used to enjoy. What you will want to look for are
the signs of depression following childbirth.
Reduce stress and cut down on the chance of post partum
depression by taking time outs. Everyone including mothers need
time to themselves. Enlist someone in your family or a very
close friend to give you a baby break every now and then. DO
not try to be a mom in isolation. Accept help and take care of
yourself.
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